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Integrity and the self

On Self-Respect

Didion separates self-respect from reputation, approval, innocence, and the wish to think well of oneself.

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Before reading

Why this essay

This is not an essay about confidence. It is about living without arranging a private exemption from cause and effect—and about the steadiness that becomes possible after self-deception loses its authority.

Its compact form is part of the lesson: Didion advances through image, example, and reversal without turning the subject into a program of self-improvement.

Carry with you

Two questions

  1. Where do you still expect intention to excuse consequence?
  2. What is the difference between protecting your image and keeping faith with yourself?